Friday, September 27, 2024

Master Your Day with Reiki’s Five Simple Promises

Every day gives us a new opportunity to begin again.

That is one of the things I love most about the Reiki principles. They are simple, gentle, and deeply powerful because they bring us back to the present moment.

They do not ask us to fix our whole life in one day.

They do not ask us to become perfect.

They do not ask us to carry yesterday’s mistakes or tomorrow’s fears.

They simply invite us to ask:

How will I show up today?

That question matters.

Because how we show up today becomes the life we are building. It becomes the energy we bring into our homes, our work, our relationships, our leadership, and our own healing.

We are not powerless. We are not victims of every circumstance, mood, trigger, or old pattern. We have the ability to pause, choose, reset, and realign.

And sometimes the most powerful transformation begins with two simple words:

Just today.

The Power of Just Today

One of the reasons the Reiki principles are so beautiful is because they are not overwhelming.

They do not say, “Never be angry again.”

They do not say, “Never worry again.”

They do not say, “Be perfectly grateful, honest, productive, and kind every moment for the rest of your life.”

They say, in essence:

Just for today, choose a higher way.

That is grace.

That is practical.

That is doable.

When we focus on just today, we stop dragging the weight of the past into the present. We stop borrowing fear from the future. We stop making healing harder than it needs to be.

Today is where our power is.

Today is where our choices are.

Today is where our healing begins.

Promise One: Today, I Will Not Let Anger Lead Me

Anger is a real human emotion.

We all experience it. We get frustrated. We feel misunderstood. We feel dismissed, disappointed, betrayed, overwhelmed, or pushed past our limits.

Anger itself is not always bad. Sometimes anger is a signal. It may tell us a boundary has been crossed. It may show us where we feel unsafe, unheard, or out of alignment. It may give us the courage to stand up and make a needed change.

But anger should be a messenger, not a master.

When anger leads us, we react instead of respond. We say things that wound. We make decisions from heat instead of wisdom. We bring yesterday’s pain into today’s relationships.

So the invitation is not to shame ourselves for feeling anger.

The invitation is to pause and ask:

  • What is this anger trying to show me?
  • Is there a boundary I need to set?
  • Is there something I need to release?
  • Can I respond from wisdom instead of reaction?

Just for today, I can notice anger without letting it drive.

Just for today, I can breathe before I speak.

Just for today, I can choose peace without pretending everything is okay.

Promise Two: Today, I Will Not Let Worry Steal My Peace

Worry is sneaky.

It disguises itself as responsibility. It tells us that if we worry enough, we are being prepared. It tells us that if we mentally rehearse every possible bad outcome, somehow we will be safer.

But worry does not protect us.

Worry drains us.

It steals energy from the present and spends it on a future that may never happen.

That does not mean we ignore reality. Responsible planning is wise. Preparation is wise. Discernment is wise.

But worry is not the same as wisdom.

Worry keeps circling the problem.

Faith takes the next right step.

So today, instead of asking, “What if everything goes wrong?” we can ask:

  • What is mine to do today?
  • What can I prepare?
  • What can I release?
  • Where do I need to trust God more deeply?

Just for today, I can choose faith over fear.

Just for today, I can take the next right step.

Just for today, I can stop rehearsing disaster and start practicing trust.

Promise Three: Today, I Will Be Grateful for My Blessings

Gratitude is one of the fastest ways to shift our energy.

It does not deny that life is hard. It does not pretend that pain, disappointment, illness, grief, or stress are not real.

Gratitude simply says:

Even here, there is still something good.

Even in the middle of a difficult season, there may be breath in your lungs, someone who loves you, a lesson you are learning, a prayer being answered slowly, a door opening quietly, or strength rising inside you that you did not know you had.

Gratitude changes what we notice.

And what we notice shapes how we live.

When we practice gratitude, we stop living only from scarcity. We begin to recognize provision, beauty, connection, mercy, and possibility.

A simple gratitude practice can change the direction of your day.

Ask yourself:

  • What is one blessing I can name right now?
  • Who am I thankful for today?
  • What did I learn from yesterday?
  • Where did I see God’s hand in my life?

Just for today, I can look for the good.

Just for today, I can give thanks before everything is perfect.

Just for today, I can let gratitude open my heart.

Promise Four: Today, I Will Work with Honesty and Integrity

This principle is so important, especially for leaders, caregivers, professionals, and anyone trying to build a meaningful life.

How we work matters.

It is not just what we accomplish. It is the spirit we bring to it.

Do we work with honesty?

Do we keep our word?

Do we do the right thing when no one is watching?

Do we bring excellence without losing our soul?

Do we lead with integrity, even when shortcuts would be easier?

Integrity is alignment between who we say we are and how we actually live.

That does not mean we never make mistakes. It means we are willing to be accountable, correct course, tell the truth, and keep becoming.

For me, this principle is also about stewardship.

Our work is not separate from our purpose. Whether we are leading a team, caring for a patient, serving a client, raising a family, building a business, or quietly doing the unseen tasks that keep life moving, we can bring integrity and heart into what we do.

Just for today, I can do honest work.

Just for today, I can bring excellence without ego.

Just for today, I can act in alignment with my values.

Promise Five: Today, I Will Be Kind to All Living Beings

Kindness is not weakness.

Kindness is strength under control.

Kindness is the decision to bring dignity into a world that often feels rushed, harsh, distracted, and divided.

And kindness starts with how we treat ourselves.

Many of us are kinder to strangers than we are to our own hearts. We speak to ourselves with criticism, impatience, and judgment. We hold ourselves to impossible standards. We replay every mistake and minimize every victory.

But if we want to bring kindness into the world, we must also learn to receive it.

So today, kindness may look like:

  • Speaking gently to yourself
  • Giving someone the benefit of the doubt
  • Listening without interrupting
  • Choosing not to gossip
  • Offering encouragement
  • Protecting your peace without becoming hard
  • Seeing the humanity in someone who is difficult

Kindness does not mean we abandon boundaries.

Kindness does not mean we tolerate abuse.

Kindness does not mean we say yes to everything.

Real kindness includes truth, wisdom, and self-respect.

Just for today, I can be kind.

Just for today, I can soften without becoming weak.

Just for today, I can bring more light into the room.

How These Promises Can Change Your Day

The beautiful thing about these five promises is that they are simple enough to remember and powerful enough to change the way we live.

Imagine beginning your day by asking:

  • Can I release anger today?
  • Can I release worry today?
  • Can I choose gratitude today?
  • Can I work with honesty and integrity today?
  • Can I be kind today?

That kind of daily reset changes your energy.

It changes how you enter your meetings.

It changes how you respond to stress.

It changes how you speak to your spouse, your children, your coworkers, your patients, your clients, and yourself.

It changes what you carry.

And eventually, what you practice daily becomes who you are becoming.

A Simple Morning Practice

Before you pick up your phone, open your email, or let the demands of the day rush in, take one quiet minute.

Place your hand over your heart.

Take a slow breath in.

Release it gently.

Then ask yourself:

Who do I want to be today?

You might choose one promise to focus on.

Maybe today is about releasing worry.

Maybe today is about practicing gratitude.

Maybe today is about integrity in a difficult conversation.

Maybe today is about kindness toward yourself.

You do not have to master everything at once.

Just choose today.

A Note About Reiki and Healing

I view Reiki as a spiritual and reflective practice that can help us slow down, become more present, and reconnect with our intention for the day.

It is not a replacement for medical care, therapy, medication, or professional support when those are needed. It is one tool among many for whole-person wellness, self-awareness, and intentional living.

Healing is layered. It can include faith, prayer, medical care, movement, nutrition, counseling, rest, relationships, forgiveness, and spiritual practices that help us feel grounded and connected.

The point is not to make healing complicated.

The point is to become more aligned with what brings life.

Final Thought

You do not have to solve your whole life today.

You do not have to become perfectly peaceful, perfectly grateful, perfectly disciplined, or perfectly kind overnight.

You simply get to begin again.

Just for today, release anger.

Just for today, release worry.

Just for today, give thanks.

Just for today, work honestly.

Just for today, be kind.

And tomorrow, you can begin again.

That is the power of these five simple promises.

They remind us that transformation does not always happen in one dramatic moment.

Sometimes transformation happens quietly, one choice at a time, one breath at a time, one day at a time.

Just for today, choose the person you are becoming.


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Monday, May 20, 2024

Letters home -

Jayson Langford Mon, Mar 4, 8:02 AM (1 day ago) Hey mom, theres a few things i wanted to share about what my thoughts have been recently and i didnt really want to put it on a big email. Think it may be good Kimberlee Langford 8:42 AM (1 hour ago) to Jayson Hey there buddy. -- Ahhhhh......grasshopper..... your faith is bigger than it feels right now. First off - I'm sending you a big, warm, mamma hug. Faith and belief are funny things -- you feel them when you feel them -- and doubt what you once knew - or hoped to know - when you don't. Faith is not a constant. It has to be carefully tended. It waxes and wanes -- and big or small..... clear or fuzzy ..... soft and squishy or rock solid ----- it's still there. I will say this - it's when we are most comfortable that we need to be the most careful. The fact that you are feeling small and uncertain tells me that you are in a space for growth. -- But you have to understand that this is very uncomfortable. It's supposed to be. Growth is not easy. Funny how connected you and I are. - I'm going to be very open and transparent with you in this email - so fair warning. YOU make me work to be better than I am. Because I've noticed that when I fumble and screw up -- so do you! -- funny how energy works like that. I work hard to be positive and strong, and to do the right things. sometimes it requires more energy and faith than I think I have. It's in times like that, that I REMEMBER how I once felt. And when I do, I remember- and the same feelings of the Spirit wash over me. I beg his forgiveness -- one more time. "help me to be better because I really do want to be good." We all have our personalities and struggles-- but one thing is the same -- that there are times that it's just .... hard. Sometimes I don't feel I have the energy to work out, to clean the house, to go to work -- etc.... but habit sees me through. You are going to have times when your spiritual energy is low, or you are frustrated, or don't understand why something is what it is -- or don't agree with a certain thing/principle/rule -- and yet your HABITS of prayer, study, temple attendance, taking care of yourself ... those HABITS will get you through. There is a spiritual and emotional cycle to all things. And as we overcome them -- we develop a skillset for overcoming that lends to faith and belief that we can get through the next obstacle..... and over the years you'll see you are not on a roller coaster of ups and downs.... it will be more like a rock - skipping across the lake. I believe so much in you! You are more magnificent than you realize -- just remember that we are only as magnificent as we are small....because in our 'smallness' - there is room for HIM. I love you - more than I can say. Love, Mom

Tuesday, January 2, 2024

See others the way God sees them ...

I know a few men who know so much about the gospel and doctrine, or about other spiritual philosophies and schools of thought that he might just be able to lay out the entire universe and the plans throughout time, but often withhold help to others in need. I know a mother who drowns her sorrows in alcohol who sees so little in herself and wont take hold of any bit hope when it comes, as well as a daughter who reaps the consequences. I know a fireman. Who goes out and chops his own wood and makes sure he has enough for a few others who won't have enough. Who sees a man he has never known or seen before and loves him all the same. A poet once wrote: "I met a stranger in the night, whose lamp had ceased to shine; I paused and let him light his lamp from mine. A tempest sprang up later on, and shook the world about, And when the wind was gone, my lamp was out. But back came to me the stranger—his lamp was glowing fine; He held the precious flame and lighted mine" My invitation to you, as well as to myself, is to see Christ in every face you encounter. No matter who they are. And let your light shine to them. - President Monson's talk in 1999 -"For I was blind but now I see"